hyson, I see what you are talking about. But I been racking debt for about a few years now. My iPod and iPhone are couple years old and probably were paid with a credit card, but my iPad was paid in debit. But some of the debt was helping my family out, my parents are in their 70's and had some medical issues. So, I helped bail them out by using some of my credit cards. They wanted to pay me back, but their my parents. I didn't want to take their money, because they put an roof over my head and raised me right.
Wolf--do me a favor and get a second opinion on bankruptcy. It's not something to be done lightly. You're young, just out of school--the last thing you need is to wreck your credit for 10 years. You may find yourself with a wife and kids soon and need that credit.
Trust me I have, credit counseling was the way I was going to avoid bankruptcy. But I owe way more then I earn and my car payments were killing me, I was paying over $400 a month. I wanted to reduce my payments and everything, but nothing was working for me.
I'm in my early 30's and I had a crappy teen years to my mid 20's. My life change all the time and it kept getting worse and worse every year. In the past couple of years I been trying to change my life around and bring back some of the good days, so unfortunately I have to go this route. I already paid my attorneys couple thousand of dollars and still owe a few hundred more and next month my bankruptcy begins when it all paid up.
But I do understand what you are talking about Casual, I do appreciate your opinion and everybody else who has posted in this thread! I would love to get married, but most states don't accept that kind of marriage and I probably don't plan on having any kids. So I believe the only person who need my credit will be me. So I hope it makes sense what I typed here.