Now they're called incels.My abstinence era was not self-imposed.
Whatever the opposite of straight edge was, that was me.I wasn't SxE (Straight Edge). It's one of those things where you something sounds good at first, but then you realize people take it to extremes and ya go "yeaaaaaa no thanks". So I first heard it was a group/label where you don't drink or do drugs. I thought "Cool!" Then it was "and they don't smoke". And I thought "These might be my people". Then it was "and they don't do caffeine" and I went "Hmmm..." Then it was "and they're vegetarian" and I went "Uh....." Then it was "and no casual sex" and I went "NO THANKS!" I was willing to wait for the right person while I had a right person. But I heard about SxE a few years earlier and got to "no casual sex" and said, "Oh hell no!"

OK, so the future Mrs. Scotch and I were dating, and she had her 2 kids from her marriage, and I had my 2 or 4 kids from my marriage. I had just moved back to my house, which the ex and her boyfriend absolutely trashed. We were in the process of getting it back into livable condition. Future-Mrs. Scotch (FMS) was in a rental, which I sometimes crashed at. It was on about that date that she got creamed at an intersection by a drunk driver, and she had no insurance on her old Honda Prelude.
Scotch (FMS) was in a rental
her whole family helped get it cleaned up
we got dumped with all 4 of the ex and my 4 kids, plus the 2 from FMS.
We got them a year later.
It was pre-digital, and besides we would never take pictures. The basement was several feet deep in trash bags and dog shit.Good God. When you say trashed you really mean it. Have any pics of that?
They stayed with her. The younger one ended up in a juvie home. The older one lived with her family in upstate NY. She left there, he stayed.Yikes. What happened with the Ex's 2?
It was pre-digital, and besides we would never take pictures. The basement was several feet deep in trash bags and dog shit.
That was a hell of a rough year.OK, so the future Mrs. Scotch and I were dating, and she had her 2 kids from her marriage, and I had my 2 or 4 kids from my marriage. I had just moved back to my house, which the ex and her boyfriend absolutely trashed. We were in the process of getting it back into livable condition. Future-Mrs. Scotch (FMS) was in a rental, which I sometimes crashed at. It was on about that date that she got creamed at an intersection by a drunk driver, and she had no insurance on her old Honda Prelude.
So I started driving her around, and it would snow almost every day. Eventually, she moved into my house, and her whole family helped get it cleaned up. My ex was hopping from place to place, and dragging the kids with her. They missed most of the school year. A few months later, our divorce was finalized, and that summer, we got dumped with all 4 of the ex and my 4 kids, plus the 2 from FMS. At the end of that summer, we filed for custody of the 2 that were mine. We got them a year later.
