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That brings up an interesting point. And I'm being serious now. Not making a joke about myself or whatever. But I totally think polygamy should be legal. Don't you all agree? I mean it gets a bad name because those crazy fake extremist Mormons (unlike normal Mormons who just have a weird third book of the Bible, but they're otherwise cool) wind up marrying like 7, 12-year-olds and that's fucking disgusting. But if everyone's an adult and they agreed to it and no one's being forced to do anything then who the fuck cares? Let four people marry each other.
I personally don't see how you can deal with 2 wives. One is hard enough. And there would issues with jealousy and income tax as scotch mentioned. But it could work for some people and I don't think the state should be the one to block it. That said it will never happen.
 

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Holy shit. Well done you four.
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I'm pushing 40 and my plan is that if everything works out and I don't screw things up, I'll be able to start my run somewhere between 40 and 41 or 42. And if I manage to live until 80 that'll be like somewhere between 38 or 40 years.
Can you keep your head outta your ass long enough for that to happen?

Just sayin......

I mean, I doubt I'd have been in a relationship longer than a year if I hadn't made some changes.
But I totally think polygamy should be legal. Don't you all agree?
Legal? Maybe. I don't care what consenting adults want to do, it's not my business.
But for me, hell no! You know how tough it is picking a restaurant with one partner?

But in the single days, I'd have given it a shot if I had enough game, or a million dollars.


And besides, there's going to be jealousy issues.
Yep. In my mind there's enough of me to go around, but at my age, some Gatorade and a nap may be involved.
 
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Having her allow you to reach 60 after 25 years of marriage is the real achievement.

The Mrs and I just hit 24. I check my pulse every morning to make sure I made it through another night.
I think my folks made it to 61 years before they both passed within months of each other. Quite the feat, especially nowadays.
 

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Things took a left turn this week. Wednesday my wife had to go to the hospital. A combination of symptoms which our home nurse suggested was cause to call 9-1-1 which I did. After several tests, the conclusion is return of cancer this time in the other eye. She also has a couple other lymph notes which have activity but only one of which will get treatment at this time. The normal course when multipe sites is chemo but my wife refuses any more chemo. So we will deal with the rest on a one by one basis. She did her first radiation on her eye today. More for the next 3 days. They are transporting her from her admitted hospital to Princess Margrett for treatment. It was unusual at PMH on a weekend. Very quiet. No word on discharge date yet.
 

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The radiation went well. The cancer in the eye has dissipated. They have discovered a fluid buildup above the right hip next to the spine. This was giving her pain in the hip and deadness in the right foot. Not enough fluid to operate on or drain so she will be on more antibiotics for a bit. She is coming home tomorrow.
 

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I'd like to hear more about Mrs. IRBS working as a DJ.

She wasn't Mrs. IRBS at the time. She worked as a DJ in the 80s and 90s. She started out on XIL (WXIL) radio in Parkersburg, WV. This was a top 40 rock/pop station (may still be). It was THE top 40 station in NW WV in the 80s. She has/had a great DJ voice. She looses her southern accent completely if she switches to it. She want by the name "Robin Lane" on the air. She told me she was responsible for a couple songs being hits in her area. The local PD did not think "Tainted Love" or "My Girl (Gone, Gone, Gone) " were worth play and going to be hits. She (being slightly defiant and stubborn then too) decided they were and started playing them. Turns out she was right. They both made top 10 in the area.

She worked at other stations in NC & WV eventually graduating over to country radio. She met her second husband in one of those stations. She did the 9am - 2pm shift. He did the 6am - 9am shift. She was kind of having an affair with the DJ doing the 2pm-7pm shift. His wife was the receptionist and evidently not to bright. When she would call to leave a message she would say her name was Jenny and her number was 867-5309 so her hubby would know she had called.

Radio DJing is not as glamorous as it appears on WKRP or other shows. It is usually minimum wage with shitty hours and no benefits. When she was doing it, she often had to do here own engineering -- queuing up records, fading in/out of the records and mics, playing commercials on a cart. I think now a days its all computerized.

She did meet the program director of a Toronto radio station somewhere and when he found out her on air name he offered her a job if she wanted one. But she was raising a 4-5 year old son at the time and she was not a real fan of the 'lifestyle' so she declined.
 

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People that do radio do it because they love it. I don’t know anyone that thinks that they will get rich from it. I know a couple that will be able to retire from it, but they have to have a lot of side gigs, voice commercials, and other stuff to get there.
 
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